Transgender Suicide Attempt Rates Are Staggering – Why?

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GENDERLESS: Last night at our meetup we talked about a “new” term for gender non-identification. Some young people want to do away with any description of LGBQT… etc. Would this be good or bad? First of all wearing a badge identifying your “sexual preferences” seems unnecessary anyway. We have two physical sexes despite Caitlyn’s confusion, it is male and female. What you choose to do in your bedroom with your sex is your affair and no one else’s! It does not take away your physical sex, that was given at birth despite what you choose to do with it. Surgery can make it appear that way but your genetics still tell what you are. So, as I see it, we each have one of two genders; however, that does not negate what we chose to do with that gender, MFLGBQT ?

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GIVE LIFE A CHANCE: As for non-identifying gender boundaries and making it a spectrum, this seems to lead to confusing practices like parents deciding their 7 year old boy is really transgender and “helping” him transition. See the National Geographic cover picture –> https://tinyurl.com/gktes3p (here Nat Geo explains why they did the right thing…) It seems to me that children have to figure things out on their own sexuality and be given time to do so not have someone start feeding them hormone shots or surgical “fixes.” A good reference to this understanding is “Psycho Cybernetics” by Maxwell maltz. Read this to see why surgery is not a solution for children and probably even adults! The childhood practice of gender identification with toys, activities, clothes etc is valuable in that it helps children learn who they are. Clothing, activities toys that are gender specific help what has always been normal development (even in prehistoric times).  After age 18 or so, after lots of experience, if someone really feels they are LBQT, then God bless them, and may they not be unhappy in their choice or abused for it!

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SUICIDE: Taking away boundaries by erasing names does not make sense, it makes confusion. Suicide rates tell us about people’s unhappiness with themselves. It is not the responsibility of society to love and accept any and all spectrum of deviations, surgical modifications or personal choices. It is probably society’s responsibility to be civil and respectful of differences; however, not something to be forced on children in school. The feedback (good or bad) from other children, in childhood, is essential to developing and choosing identification. Children’s play is not just learning coordination, it is role playing that helps them define themselves!  Physical violence or social media stalking … is NOT acceptable. I am not talking about this. Plants and people need night as well as sunshine to grow. We need to lose and win at sports, not get a reward for showing up.

 

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PRIDE DOES NOT NEED SURGERY – THE NEW NORMAL?: Caitlyn Jenner’s remark about being the “new normal” is nonsense. A normal is something that is common and expected by society or the rest of the animal kingdom. Pride is evidence in the posture of a lion as seen on the left here. Caitlyn is a surgical aberration.  Dr Maxwell Maltz described, in his first surgical experience, doing a nose job for a lady, who believed she would be beautiful after a nose job.  When he was proudly unveiling her new beauty she remarked “I don’t see any difference.”  This was because she was unhappy with who she was and the nose was just justification. By contrast at a party one evening he offered to correct a facial scar for a man who had been cut by a dueling sword.  The man was offended and refused.  He said, “I earned this scar dueling! Why should I have it removed?”  His scar made him beautiful. I think Bruce Jenner should be watched for suicide tendencies. He cannot love himself if he was willing to pay so much to be mutilated.

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SELF RESPECT: Civility in adulthood is, I believe, an underlying premise of America as a melting pot. I believe that harassment of sexual choice must stop. However, suicide rates would best decline if people were inwardly truly proud of their choices. Gay Pride, a beautiful concept, needs to figure this out for their brothers and sisters. If that can become a reality, society will not have to change to meet this need, it will simply become a reality. I have known a good number of proud, special, sucessful “gay” people in my life and my life is that much richer for this experience. Many of  today’s gay people are special, especially the ones who learn to love themselves despite the childhood cruelties we all suffer (gay or not). There is wealth in diversity. Who is stupid enough to  strive for poverty?

ABOUT TRANSGENDER SUICIDE RATES:   http://www.vocativ.com/culture/lgbt/transgender-suicide/

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The Attack Against American Boundaries And Values By The Media!

gender-maniaNational Geographic just published a front page article this week honoring a nine-year-old boy who “feels”  he is a girl and as a result chooses to dress like one,  act like one and claim he is one (a girl that is). Therefore National Geographic implies in this article that he should be accepted as one. Can Nat Geo deny this when scrawled accross the page is the statment “Gender Revolution?”

According to the implications of Nat Geo’s article this transvestite child is a model of a universal truth we mindless average Americans are missing.  The truth being whatever Nat Geo and other extreme Hollywood dementia types are sharing at the moment. How can they claim this? Easy, because there is no God, there are no values, and everything is morally relative, as overpaid pathetic liberal professors now teach your children in college.

It appears to me, from their article, that they are telling us that just like Bruce Jenner, who claims “I am the new normal,” this child, a nine-year-old named Avery, is the new normal.  We average Americans on the other hand  are mentally unable to grasp that fact; but, they have hopes that we will learn from Nat Geo and their generous and patient education program beginning with this “revolutionary” publication.

The attack against Judeo-Christian American Boundaries And Values goes on and on! Just remember when you say “we should all love and accept this transvestite”  that it may be Christian to love all but not mandatory to accept all.  Just as liberal extremists gave their children awards for showing up and not achievement,  giving awards for sexual identity confusion makes no sense and that is what this article is about!

uncle-samSomewhere in this confusing world we must have common boundaries and values as Americans or we are meaningless as a people.  The attack on Judeo-Christian values is growing by the moment. Maybe we should not just let California seceded from the union but vote to expel them from the Union (or at least Hollywood and its sympathizers).


I for one (and with a HUGE majority of Americans) believe that women are beautiful and special.
 I don’t want that boundary, that distinction,  that beauty, destroyed by people who think that pink worn by women is forced mind control!

What does Nat Geo have to say about this? “Surely we can support kids to be whoever they want to be and dress however they like without further reinforcing sexist stereotypes…”

demandpunishmentforthugswhocutdogsearsoffandposedforphotos46421No Meghan Murphy and the rest of you pathetics at Nat Geo, we do not have to support everything or anything YOU think is Okay.  

I saw a proud selfie photo of two young Turkish boys holding bloody dog’s ears they had just cut off. The suffering animal sat chained below.

Surely you can support kids whoever they want to be….. invite these young people to stay at your home…don’t lock the silverware drawer and sleep well!

Meghan Murphy, the author of this article, “The Gender Revolution” therefore ends her great lesson to us ignorant -value prone conservatives by telling us that we are hurting children by expressing —-

S E X I S T     S T E R E O T Y P E S !

beauty-girl-google-labled4reuseYes expecting a women to look and dress female and a man to look and dress male is a Sexist Stereotype, according to Nat Geo and Meghan. Tell this to Avon, Revlon, Mary Kay,  Maybelline, Maybelline, Estée lauder, CoverGirl, Clinique, Elizabeth Arden …..   Oddly enough they have been marketing for and singing the praises of Female Beauty, clothing and style for a very long time!  Are they all guilty of Sexist Stereotyping?  Are the designers such as Coco Chanel, Donna Karan, Giorgio Armani, Calvin Klein, Donatella Versace, Ralph Lauren, Christian Dior, Pierre Cardin and others, who design great female fashions, Sexist Stereotyping too?

I love my friends who may be gay or lesbian, it is my choice. I love them for who they are, how they act towards me and others in our community, what they care about, our common values!   However, I do not have to accept their sexual values as mine nor praise those values any more then they have to love my propensity for cayenne pepper in food! Despite differences, I would defend them with my life if anyone should attack them! They are Americans and we all live and stand together or die together. Nevertheless, America started with values, has values, wants values and your telling us that if we don’t change we are sexist bigots is nothing but bullshit.  People come to America because of who we are not who you want to remake us into! We have our values, we have our tolerance to differences and we have our pride in this achievement, but we did not ask you or anyone else to rewrite our history. We don’t need revolution after revolution after revolution to make the desires of everyone’s unique psychological issues something to march for!  Some of us do believe in God and ultimate values. Those who don’t, atheists who believe in moral relativity (your apparent values)  have killed more people in the world than all the “religious wars” in history. 

People are not just men, women or gay.  People are complex creatures that only God can comprehend.  My gay friends are not just “gay.” They are complex people with values, American values, Christian values, ethics, moral values, likes and dislikes which we Americans hold in common; it is what make us a Nation.  We Americans are diverse, we accept differences and yet we have a common heritage that we do not want eroded by degenerate Hollywood “celebrities” whose greatest virtues are seen on every counter in “The Inquirer,” “The Examiner” or “People Magazine. Their frequently published values, how many orgies they can attend or how many marriages they have had and when they will be out of drug rehabilitation are not now and never will be mainstream American values.  If there are no boundaries as you and they seem to see it, then why are they not advocating for Sharia Law?  Oops…. they will be killed by ISIS and the like (I forgot that).

Re-defining America until we have no boundaries is a dangerous goal.  We all have a feeling where our boundaries should be though it is hard at times to express in words. This applies to national boundaries as well as moral boundaries.  It has been expressed for several hundred years, as America. Yes we righted injustices and refined our viewpoints, but we do not choose to change who we are.

If human sexuality is a spectrum and not a dichotomy as nature appears to present it, then YOU should logically accept all those who believe in God as a spectrum and see no dichotomies or boundaries. With that in mind you should accept as refugees any and all Islamic people who come from ISIS controlled territory without vetting!  To not do so would be akin to being sexist; it’s Islamophobic!

Nat Geo, volunteer your homes to all the unvetted islamics now!  Why judge them, it’s the Islamic Revolution, support it!

Let’s see how well that goes over…………..Nat Geo!